Making Memories and Haircuts

I am under no illusions that my girls are perfect. They are human, curious and mine. They have their daddy's hard head and my strong will. Along with both of our spirits, love for life and adventurous ideas, they can make a good day even better and a rough kind of day seem like it will never end. But they are ours and we accept and love all of it. It is what makes them who they are. We work on redirection, praise and teaching with love. It may not always seem like they get it, but then a certain conversation or situation will arise and you realize... They get it.

I recently took an afternoon to myself. An awesome Sunday afternoon to just be alone. To think, study, reflect and unwind. My sweet husband demanded it and I did not argue. It was wonderful! About three hours into the alone time, my phone rang. That is not unusual. He checks in on me periodically and I love that about him. Always making sure I am safe and sound and most importantly that I am having fun. So, the conversation goes something like this.

Andy: Hey honey. Is Sarah supposed to have scissors in her room
Me: No, Why? (knowing good and well this was not going to be a good conversation)
Andy: She may have cut Olivia's hair a bit.
Me: Tell her that I will deal with it when I get home


I hung up the phone and I.was.livid. I can honestly say that I never expected that from the Bear. But one thing I have learned throughout this journey of parenting is that you expect the unexpected.

I chose to go easy on this one. She is five and curious. I imagine she just wanted to see if it would really cut. People have shared stories upon stories with me about the time they did it or had it done to them. Normal stuff I decided. I understand that it isn't OK to approve of everything just because it is their first time and they are curious. I just knew that this one was a lesson rendered in itself. With the session of playing Ms.Victoria came new haircuts for both. Upon further investigation, she had chopped  bit of her own as well. I smile. I try to remember how badly I wanted to see if I could cut my own hair when I was little. We move on. And we do it with sassy style.

BTW, it was done with children's scissors. Just so you know, all adult scissors are put up and hidden. So are the child scissors for now. That will be a privilege earned back at a later date.

A friend's little boy had a birthday party at what used to be Hall's Skateland when I was growing up. It is now owned/operated by some very fine people and  has been named Wheelies. Both girls loved it and watching my oldest start off on the rail and end up rolling on her own in the middle made me smile. A dear friend saw a picture on Instagram from the party. She is no longer in VA, but like me, has many fond memories at that skating rink. She unintentionally brought something so special to my attention. How cool it is that I am able to make memories watching my children enjoy and explore the same things I did as a child. That hit home and really meant something to me. Sometimes I take where we live for granted. What I mean is that while I loved growing up here, I forget that those same memories are the same ones my girls will appreciate and remember one day. I am just thankful for that reminder from a very dear friend. Thank you Laura..

We are counting down the days until spring. I am so ready to see those
first signs of budding and color. It doesn't feel like spring is anywhere in sight outside. The cold, fierce winds and bare trees are a constant reminder that we still have a while. That doesn't stop us though. We are spring on the inside.

 We have just celebrated a new milestone. That will get a post of its own though.

Happy Hump Day!

 

 

 

 

 

Happy Hold Me Day

This morning I was awakened by my normal tap. But on this particular morning, my normal alarm clock is no longer three. She is four. So spunky. So full of life and spirit. A true blessing to our family and beyond. Happy Birthday Bean!



Our conversation this morning with she, her big sister and I went something like this...
Me: Happy Birthday. How does it feel to be four?
Olivia: I don't want to be four.
Me: But why?
Olivia: Because when you get four, a mommy can't hold you anymore.
Insert big sister..
Sarah: Oh sissy. That's not true. Mommy will still be able to hold you when you are big and grown up. You can just sit right on her lap. It will all be OK. (She is so amazing in her role as big sister)

Olivia: Mommy, can you hold me now.
Me: Oh yes baby girl. Now and always.

 

Our Doc McStuffins party was yesterday. I am so glad as the weather today certainly isn't party friendly. It wasn't all that party friendly yesterday either. Our Bean is so blessed with many family and friends. People filled this house to it's brim. Laughter and chaos and cake and more. This house was alive and it was wonderful. She loved every minute of it and that is what is important. Thank you to all of our dear family and friends. You are appreciated more than you know and fill our hearts with your support and continued love for our family. Even those that live far away. Your love was felt when we heard the mail man at the door. Excited to find a new package. That love travels far, but we feel it strong.

 

 

So, our party mode ends. The snow continues to fall. And fall. And fall. Looks like a lazy, stay home kind of day again tomorrow. We won't be bored though. A house full of new toys and growing imaginations will come in handy over the next few days. I have cherished and nurtured the past year. I continue to watch her grow. And wonder where on earth the time goes. It is so precious. Our one and most important time in our life with our babes. Nothing makes me happier. The smiles and pure joy that I see in their eyes when I love them or hold them. Now and always.

Happy Week!

Hello Blue Skies

The snow is gone. The ground is so green. The sky so blue. These random warm days are such a sweet surprise. As we go along, day turns into night and night turns into day. We try to find different activities. Things to keep us busy in the winter months. Sometimes that can be challenging. I sometimes get in a rut, but the warm, sunny day comes around and breaks the rut. Happiness......

 

 

We continue to plan our Bean's fourth birthday. I started setting up today and I think it is going to be great. I felt like I didn't have "enough" to decorate. Some coffee filters and toys we have around the house and we are set. Houston, we have pin the hat on Hallie. Fun stuff.

 

 

The cold weather is coming back in the next couple of days. We'll start over. Reading some new books or finding ways to be creative.

Have a good night.

getting ready for "4"

I found what I thought was the coolest idea on Pinterest(don't we all). It involved four things. Poster board, coffee filters, glue and spray paint. Easy. Just the way I like it. I didn't take a picture of the number 4 when it was just poster board. And, in all honesty, when I got started I still wasn't too sure about this project. But, the more coffee filters I glued on, the fuller and more to life my number came. The finished product made me smile. And shed a tear. She is almost "4". And she is fantastic. My baby.

Doc McStuffins is not an easy party to plan or decorate for. She isn't on plates or napkins yet. With an awesome Etsy gal and friend that rocks the cake thing, I think we'll come together just fine!

The snow is supposed to roll back in tomorrow. Glad our generator is on our carport this time.

Stay warm!

"Snow" much Fun

We woke up to sun shine this morning. The sky was a vibrant blue. The perfect snow tipped trees popped against the sky so clear. Pure beauty...




The girls couldn't wait to get every inch of their bodies in the white blanket of snow. We joined some neighbor friends for snowman building and their first sleigh ride. Neither of them like the cold. We didn't have the best snow attire in all fairness, but we made the most of it. The snowman was fun, but the best smiles and giggles came from the sleigh riding. We packed as much fun in that thrity minutes or so that we could.






That snowball was definately meant for me

We returned home to a warm house with power. Yippee!! After thawing out and filling our bellies, we crashed for two hours. They say they want to go out again tomorrow. We'll see. Maybe. Maybe not. We have an afternoon playdate with some friends and quite a few craftastic projects up our sleeve. We have talked a lot about our appreciation for the things we have today. Electricity being the main one. But so many other things as well. I have really looked and seen how much I have to be thankful for today. We are so blessed and so lucky to have the luxuries we do.

It has been a great day. Another awaits us.  Good night.

White Blanket..Black Out

It started snowing today. Not slowly, but in buckets. Beautiful white blankets formed outside before our eyes. Part of me loves this. It is a good reason to stay in our pajamas and string lights from one end of the playroom to another. Making a "pretend" outdoor movie theater as the bean says.

 

Tonight, as I lay here in the pitch dark of our home (no power), I listen to the heavy breaths that my little ones take. So thankful for a husband that keeps a fire going to keep us warm and cozy. Thankful for the fun we can find in even the darkest moments. We are so blessed and so cozy in this beautiful place we call home.

Tomorrow brings sunlight and two little girls that can't wait to hit the snow full force. Truly appreciating this beauty that God has blessed us with.

For now, I am still. Nothing to interrupt or consume me. Just the sound of breathing babes and my heart so full..

Be safe and stay warm!

A New Way to Blog

I haven't attempted it because I wasn't sure of all the details. So much new technology and so much to learn. I am getting there. It still blows my mind that with one little application and a cell phone, I can blog from anywhere at the touch of a button. I love the idea of being able to use photos I capture with my phone. Our busy, crazy fun life happens at times I don't have my big camera. Times that I just want to capture that special, unplanned moment. Just like these...

Our week long plans are very low key. I am studying like crazy for the Life and Health Insurance exam. Andy has already sold policies to five customers. It is fun, exciting and something we love doing together.

I can't believe we are half way through the pre-school year. It is so hard to believe my Bear will be starting public school in less than a year.

We have been enjoying the spring like temperatures. I know it won't last, but February is right around the corner and spring won't be too far from that. I have a Doc McStuffins 4th birthday party in the works and a fun trip with some friends planned to break up the winter time blues coming in February. A fun place where snow, rain or shine, we play, laugh and catch up with dear friends...

Happy week!